what about these:
Sex is a neccesary evil can u coment on it?
we all know that sex is an important thing which binds a husband wife relation & also for making love and reproduce. but now it has
turned evil now it has overtaken love . but even today some people believe love of souls than of bodies . what do u think ?
First there are many considerations.
First there is just the act of sex.
From this perspective I think that sex is sex. How does it differ then a back scratch, holding hands, a hug, a kiss or a massage? It doesn't! )Other then to say that it's degree of intimacy is greater.)
In a serious, committed relationship between two individuals sex is a way of expressing that love and in most conventional relationship, including mine, sex is a private matter shared only between the partners. (I have sex with my girl and ONLY my girl. She has sex with me and ONLY me.) Just as I kiss her and only her. I only hold hands with her and she is the only woman I give a massage to. (Let's face it, if a woman were to come home to find her husband kissing another woman or giving her a massage, he would be in serious trouble.)
If I break up with my girl, then when I find a new woman, I will kiss her, hold her hand, giver her massages and have sex with her.
If I ma NOT in a relationship and a female friends of mine wants to have sex, then hey, why not! We are both consenting adults and we both know the score.
Sex is a action that feels good. There is nothing dirty or evil about it. It is enjoyable. To deny oneself or another of the pleasures of sex because of some antiquated notion of impropriety is absurd.
Look at it his way, 200 years ago in the US it was considered unthinkable that a woman would kiss a man deeply (with tongue) unless they were married and alone. And even them many woman would never do such an "unladylike" thing. Just 100 years ago trams and harlots would kiss like this, but civilized woman only kissed their husbands and maybe their fiancées is such a manner. Today there's hardly a girl over the age of 12 that hasn't kissed a boy deeply and by the time a woman is 21 she has probably had quite a few deep encounters. To think of "French kissing" as depraved, disgusting or evil seams silly, yet people did. The same is true of sex. Sex is sex. Kissing is kissing.
That said, because of STD's and the risk of pregnancy, there is certainly more involved in the decision as to whether or not to have sexual relations, but if two mature and responsible adults choose to have sex, that is up to them. IT is not evil and, so long as no one, the man, the woman or any one else is hurt (physically or emotionally[such as some ones wife or husband or child, etc...]) then it's all good!
turned evil now it has overtaken love . but even today some people believe love of souls than of bodies . what do u think ?
First there are many considerations.
First there is just the act of sex.
From this perspective I think that sex is sex. How does it differ then a back scratch, holding hands, a hug, a kiss or a massage? It doesn't! )Other then to say that it's degree of intimacy is greater.)
In a serious, committed relationship between two individuals sex is a way of expressing that love and in most conventional relationship, including mine, sex is a private matter shared only between the partners. (I have sex with my girl and ONLY my girl. She has sex with me and ONLY me.) Just as I kiss her and only her. I only hold hands with her and she is the only woman I give a massage to. (Let's face it, if a woman were to come home to find her husband kissing another woman or giving her a massage, he would be in serious trouble.)
If I break up with my girl, then when I find a new woman, I will kiss her, hold her hand, giver her massages and have sex with her.
If I ma NOT in a relationship and a female friends of mine wants to have sex, then hey, why not! We are both consenting adults and we both know the score.
Sex is a action that feels good. There is nothing dirty or evil about it. It is enjoyable. To deny oneself or another of the pleasures of sex because of some antiquated notion of impropriety is absurd.
Look at it his way, 200 years ago in the US it was considered unthinkable that a woman would kiss a man deeply (with tongue) unless they were married and alone. And even them many woman would never do such an "unladylike" thing. Just 100 years ago trams and harlots would kiss like this, but civilized woman only kissed their husbands and maybe their fiancées is such a manner. Today there's hardly a girl over the age of 12 that hasn't kissed a boy deeply and by the time a woman is 21 she has probably had quite a few deep encounters. To think of "French kissing" as depraved, disgusting or evil seams silly, yet people did. The same is true of sex. Sex is sex. Kissing is kissing.
That said, because of STD's and the risk of pregnancy, there is certainly more involved in the decision as to whether or not to have sexual relations, but if two mature and responsible adults choose to have sex, that is up to them. IT is not evil and, so long as no one, the man, the woman or any one else is hurt (physically or emotionally[such as some ones wife or husband or child, etc...]) then it's all good!
